Thursday, October 3, 2013

Wedding Talk

So, our wedding solemnization and wedding date has been fixed.

May 2nd 2014, Friday  for solemnization at Holiday Inn Orchard.
May 31st 2014, Saturday,  for wedding at Seoul Apgujeong Annabini House.

I am satisfied with both the locations.
As Mun's father is in charge of whipping up the dinner at Holiday Inn Orchard, 
I feel more at ease that our guests will be satisfied with the dinner.
Nevertheless, the buffet spread at Annabini House looks so scrumptious.
I doubt I can get to enjoy the food on my wedding day so Eric suggested we go try the food this coming November. 

Yesterday was Korea's public holiday so Eric and his mum went scouring for our wedding location.
And everything was settled yesterday, from our photoshoot studio, make up to our ceremony location.
Efficient max. 
I feel so sorry to his mom though, as this kind of things should be what the bride is supposed to take care of.


Finally a load off my mind for now, but more things to worry about. 
I am actually experiencing some pre-wedding blues.
I know everyone is like, you are getting married, you ought to be a happy bride.
I asked google, and I realised there are so many bride-to-be experiencing the same thing as I do.
The things to worry about just seemed to be never ending.

As we are of different tradition,
gifts exchange might also become a problem.
I want the situation to be a win-win situation, so I have been working it out with my parents.
Nevertheless, saying bye bye to single life and moving on to another stage of life is scary.
Now, how to be a good wife is not my concern, it is how to be a good Korean wife.
That's different, y'know. 
I am also giving up my job in Singapore to start anew there.
I am worried about my job prospect too. 


Being quarrelsome in times like this doesn't help except to strain the relationship.
I am glad that Eric and I are able to stay calm admist all this stress and work things out together.
Now, I will just focus on being a happy bride ^^